tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4186970864293258312.post2381039701354469627..comments2023-10-19T08:17:37.794-07:00Comments on I Have Things...: Maybe It's MeTChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06927536275580889825noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4186970864293258312.post-79892637444401162272008-07-21T09:59:00.000-07:002008-07-21T09:59:00.000-07:00I don't know you or your situation with your son.B...I don't know you or your situation with your son.<BR/><BR/>BUT my husband says this to me and it's always one of those.. mm, your right! statements: "Argue for your limitations and they will be yours." If you are constantly making reasons and excuses and exceptions for him, them he won't learn to work around them... he won't need to.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4186970864293258312.post-54406007118206401532008-07-17T13:35:00.000-07:002008-07-17T13:35:00.000-07:00AAAAAAAHHHH!AAAAHHH!Don't make me fly out there an...AAAAAAAHHHH!<BR/>AAAAHHH!<BR/><BR/>Don't make me fly out there and open up a giant can of "GIVE YOURSELF A BREAK."<BR/><BR/>Hi.Rich | Championablehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04465242424716799056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4186970864293258312.post-24073305021862606082008-07-17T00:02:00.000-07:002008-07-17T00:02:00.000-07:00I think that's a great reason for introducing new ...I think that's a great reason for introducing new people into N's life every so often - so he can view himself how others view him. <BR/><BR/>I can not tell you how mindblowing it is for me to know people who didn't know me as a kid who was violently and vocally hated by everyone. To be friends with people who trust me, who simply think I'm a regular person. <BR/><BR/>Also, keep in mind EVERY Greenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10931380770342598889noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4186970864293258312.post-84595989330615862012008-07-16T20:37:00.000-07:002008-07-16T20:37:00.000-07:00I have done this too. Defended or explained my kid...I have done this too. Defended or explained my kids prior to having any reason for doing so. It's a protective device that can backfire, expecially when my kids notice me doing it. I've been like this about myself too- apologizing in advance, if only in my own mind, for any perceived inadequecies or differences- so I guess I set my own precedent. The other thing I've done is downplayed my kids' Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com